语言与情感

今天早上一起床，
突然很恐慌，
我，
好像忘了怎么说英文，
天啊！
这怎么可以呢。。。
英文带有我和老师的深深革命情感，
怎么能忘呢。。
时光一直重播，
小时候，
从国校转至华校，
华文不好，甚至于被同学排挤，
我不是不喜欢华文，
只是没办法掌握学习。。。
感恩上天，
让我遇到了一位很好的华文老师，
在我小学的最后一年里
硬是把我的华文从谷底扯到了地平线，
让我这个华人，
不至于成为无根的浮萍，
随着时间万物飘飘荡荡。。。
回忆去年，
初遇英文补习老师的那天，
一见面，
立刻就被他的气势给震撼到了。。
不是因为他很有魄力，
而是因为他骑着摩托车轰隆轰隆的朝着我驶来。。
吓都吓呆了==
从那天起，
我们便结下了不解之缘，
不同国籍不同种族甚至于不同语言年龄差距很大的两人
莫名其妙的就亲如父女了。。
眷上了英文，因为有他而爱上了华文着因为有她。
我想，
我爱语文，
不只因为语言是让人类沟通的桥梁，
也因为它
是我和老师们的情感牵绊
心中永远最眷恋的温暖。

1024¬¬¬

its the day be4 my frend was borned...
he had a party,
n we join it.
tat day,
im sad.
he was the 1 i like much or is
n i'd declared my feeling more than once,
but he never give me even a response.
after i struggled through thinking dilemma
wat welcome me was ignorant from him n maybe unconcerness..
i no i cnt have extravagant hope but the things juz out of my control
my minds greed my heart scream,
4 more n more,
more concern more sense of secure
let me feel ur heart or turn me down totally
i don wan to turn the table
i juz need an answer
u,
tell me how u feel.

Steps on How to be Patient Person1. Try to figure out why you're in such a hurry. We tend to lose our patience when we're multi-tasking or when we're on a tight schedule. If you're stretching yourself too thin, you should reconsider your to-do list before you attempt to change your natural reaction to an overwhelming situation. Try to spread out your tasks so that you're doing only one thing at a time. Delegate responsibilities to others if you can; this in itself may be a test of your patience, but you have to learn to share the load.

2. Pinpoint the triggers that often make you lose your patience. Impatience creeps in insidiously, and if you feel anxious, worried, or unhappy you may not even realize that the underlying cause of these feelings is impatience. To reduce the frequency of impatience, it helps to be aware of it. Which events, people, phrases or circumstances always seem to make you lose your cool? Sit down and make a list of all the things which cause you anxiety, tension, or frustration. At the core of most triggers is a reality that we have a hard time accepting. What are those realities for you?

3. Overcome bouts of impatience. In the long run, developing patience requires a change in your attitude about life, but you can immediately make progress by learning to relax whenever you feel impatient. Take a few deep breaths and just try to clear your mind. Concentrate on breathing and you'll be able to get your bearings.

4. Look for patterns. Being aware of your impatience also gives you a chance to learn from it and perhaps uncover a relationship or circumstance that is simply not healthy or constructive, and that you may have the power to change. Figure that out, and you can then think logically about the problem issue and decide whether or not your impatience is warranted or helpful. It usually isn't, but when it is you can then figure out ways to fix the root problem rather than simply feeling stressed about it.

5. Let go if you can't do anything about the impatience trigger. If there isn't anything that you can do to resolve whatever has triggered your impatience, just let it go. Easier said than done, yes, but it's possible, and it's the only healthy thing to do. Initially, you will probably find it difficult to let go if the matter is important to you--waiting to hear back after a job interview, for instance--but you should be able to alleviate impatience that's caused by issues of less consequence (i.e. waiting in line at the grocery store). If you make a concerted effort to be more patient in relatively inconsequential, short-term situations, you'll gradually develop the strength to remain patient in even the most trying and enduring situations.

6. Remind yourself that things take time. People who are impatient are people who insist on getting things done now and don't like to waste time. However, some things just can't be rushed. Think about your happiest memories. Chances are, they were instances when your patience paid off, like when you worked steadily towards a goal that wasn't immediately gratifying, or took a little extra time to spend leisurely with a loved one. Would you have those memories if you had been impatient? Probably not. Almost anything really good in life takes time and dedication, and if you're impatient, you're more likely to give up on relationships, goals, and other things that are important to you. Good things may not always come to those who wait, but most good things that do come don't come right away.

7. Expect the unexpected. Yes, you have plans, but things don't always work out as planned. Accept the twist and turns in life gracefully. Keep your expectations realistic. This applies not only to circumstances, but also the behavior of those around you. If you find yourself blowing up over your child or your spouse accidentally spilling a drink, you're not in touch with the fact that people aren't perfect. Even if the occasion is not an isolated incident but is instead caused by their repeated neglect and carelessness, losing your patience isn't going to make it any better. That's something to be addressed with discussion and self-control.

8. Give yourself a break. The meaning of this is twofold. First, take a few minutes to do absolutely nothing. Just sit quietly and think. Don't watch television; don't even read. Do nothing. It may be hard at first, and you may even feel pretty impatient after a minute or two, but by taking some time out you can essentially slow your world down, and that's important to develop the attitude necessary to develop patience. Second, stop holding yourself and the world around you to unreachable standards. Sure, we'd all be more patient if babies didn't cry, dishes didn't break, computers didn't crash, and people didn't make mistakes--but that's never going to happen. Expecting the world to run smoothly is like beating your head against the wall. Give yourself a break.

9. Remember what matters. Not focusing on what matters most in this life fuels impatience. Move the world toward peace by being kind, generous in forgiveness of others, being grateful for what is, and taking full advantage of what matters most. When other less important things fuel our impatience, taking time to remember any one of these items reduces our tendency to want something different right now.

How to develop patience?

Here are some suggestions for you to develop patience. Just go through these simple suggestions and try to imbibe them in your daily life. Treat them as important principles to be followed so that you are able to practice patience.

Treat every work you do with equal importance. Always remember "work is worship". The more importance you give to a particular task, the more you get involved in it and you are able to do it with more precision. Be patient and you will complete any work with less efforts.


Remind yourself every time about the goals you want to achieve in your life. Be very strict about following certain strategies to achieve the goals in your life. When the question is about your career think seriously and stick to your goals.


Take any decision without hurrying. Take opinions of a few people before arriving at any final decision.


Follow examples of great people like Mahatma Gandhi, Gautam Buddha etc. Remember that they possessed lot of courage and patience to become what today they are recognized for today.


Try to give some time in a day for meditation. Practicing meditation is very helpful to increase your patience and courage.


Remember that there are some things in life which you will not be able to get before time. So wait for the right time.


Try to divide your main target in small targets if you are unable to complete it because of your impatience. Always try to complete your small goals first and then move on towards your bigger targets.


Do not do things which are unnecessary. For example some people have a habit of going out for shopping or eating without any reason. Think that rather wasting money on extra cheese in meals or an extra pair of shoes or dresses save that money for a rainy day.


Remember that God is always testing your patience in difficult times. So do not lose patience in any situation. Stay calm.
Even a small thing like standing in a queue requires patience. If you can do at least that you will be able to develop lots of patience within yourself. Think of pregnant women, how much patience they would require during nine months to give birth to a baby.

Many times in life we come across situations big and small that require us to be patient. Patience is the mother of all virtues. If you can be patient you can do anything.

我只有梦~i only have dream><

今天，我的朋友~刘忆~说出了 他的决定。
他想当一名老师。。
虽然微微带着惊讶，但还是在这里给于你慢慢的祝福，
祝福你~刘忆~希望未来的路，通往成功。
而另一位朋友，薏小姐呢，似乎也决定走向教学之路，
在此也先祝福她，下定决心，勇往直前~~
妮妮小姐~也开始开扩通往新加坡之路了~
恭喜恭喜~
这一篇呢，是为朋友们祝福地八^^
哈哈。。
因为看到大家从一开始的不确定到现在的拼命，
真得很感动。。
至于小羊咩咩呢~
也请不要太难过，毕竟未来的事，
谁也不能预料，说不定某年某月某一天，
翻开报纸，看到的，就是介绍你的杰出漫画家篇~~
哈哈。。
我们这一班，太多不确定，
太多的现实想法，
模拟了以后的人生，套用了一切重量在身上后，
我们还拥有青春吗？
青春的可贵不就是那勇往直前不顾一切的勇气吗？
我是个异类，也是个很彻底的没脑青年，
因为比起你们的顾虑考量，
我什么都没有，
拥有的剩下的，
就只是一个梦了，
一个支撑着我，继续努力，继续往前冲，向前走的能量了~
我曾经认为自己什么都没有，拼命想要捉着些什么当借口，
但其实，我有的，很多。
不要借口，不要痴妄，我清楚自己要什么。
我找不到实现的管道，我找不到想要的支持，
没关系。
我看得见自己的心。
我的梦想是我能抬起头来大声说的事，
无视耻笑不理解，
因为那就是我未来的投影。